11 articles
Having a baby doesn't just change your sleep schedule — it quietly dismantles your social world. Here's the science of what happens to your friendships when you become a parent, and a practical playbook for rebuilding community from scratch.
Mika Torres·
You feel closer to your CrossFit classmates than friends you've known for years. That's not an accident — it's cardiac synchrony, shared suffering, and a self-reinforcing virtuous cycle. Here's the 3-layer framework behind why sweat builds bonds faster than almost anything else.
Ren Castillo·
You've been meaning to have people over for months. Science says stop waiting — sharing a meal is one of the most powerful community-building tools available, and a potluck is the lowest-stakes way to do it.
Mika Torres·
You can live ten feet from someone for five years and never actually meet them. Here's the science of what it actually takes to turn proximity into community — and a practical playbook for the person ready to make it happen.
Mika Torres·
Having a baby is one of the most joyful things in a life — and one of the most socially disruptive. Here's the science behind the friendship fade, why new-parent bonds form so fast, and a practical framework for building the village from scratch.
Mika Torres·
Faith communities produce some of the most durable social bonds on earth. The mechanisms behind them — awe, synchronized ritual, meaning-infused service — are well-documented social science. Here's the playbook, for believers and non-believers alike.
Mika Torres·
Fandom gets dismissed as parasocial noise — but the science says something different. Here's what happens in a crowd of people who love the same thing, and why your fellow fan might be the most underrated connection opportunity in your life.
Dani Okafor·
Your rec league isn't just a workout. Here's the science behind why group physical activity is one of the most powerful community-building tools available — and a practical checklist for turning sweat sessions into actual belonging.
Mika Torres·
Retirement, loss, and life transitions quietly dismantle the structures that kept us socially wired. Here's what the science says actually works — and a practical checklist for building meaningful connection in later life.
Mika Torres·
Feeling disconnected? The most evidence-backed fix isn't another networking event — it's structured volunteering. Here's exactly how to use it as a connection strategy, with the science to back it up.
Ren Castillo·
Your neighborhood is packed with connection infrastructure — parks, clubs, events, and programs. Here's a practical framework for actually plugging in and using it.
Ren Castillo·