19 articles
Long-term love doesn't fail dramatically — it fades quietly, through relational autopilot. Here's what social science reveals about the three forces that actually keep romantic partnerships alive: energy allocation, conversational drift, and the surprising fine print on gratitude.
Jules Nakamura·
Getting ghosted feels like a wound because it is one. Here's the 3-step recovery protocol backed by social psychology — for people who want to actually repair the damage instead of just white-knuckling through it.
Ren Castillo·
You think you're listening. The data disagrees. Here's what behavioral research on 17,120 real conversation moments reveals about what active listening actually does — and why the difference between faking it and doing it is a three-part chain reaction.
Jules Nakamura·
Your brain has been running the same social bonding software for 200,000 years, and it runs on laughter. Here's the evolutionary neuroscience of why shared humor builds connection faster than almost anything else — and how to use it more deliberately.
Jules Nakamura·
Empathy isn't something you're born with — it's a skill with documented training modalities that actually work. Here's the science-backed framework for getting better at the most important social skill nobody ever taught you.
Ren Castillo·
Your friendship network isn't shrinking because something's wrong with you. It's following a predictable arc — and knowing where you are on it changes everything about how you tend it.
Dani Okafor·
Before you send that overdue "thinking of you" message, you run an elaborate internal risk assessment. Here's what the science says about why we hesitate — and how catastrophically we underestimate what our words mean to the people who receive them.
Sage Lindgren·
The parent-adult child relationship is one of the longest we'll ever have — and one of the least intentionally renegotiated. Here's the social science of what it actually takes to update the dynamic.
Jules Nakamura·
Family estrangement is one of the most common and least talked-about forms of loss. Here's what the science says about why reaching out feels impossible, why vulnerability is the only bridge, and how to live with grief that has no ceremony.
Sage Lindgren·
Long-term couples drift not because love fades, but because a specific feedback loop breaks down. Here's the social science behind what actually sustains romantic intimacy — and three practical moves to rebuild it.
Jules Nakamura·
Being ghosted stings. But the science says it's usually inertia, not cruelty — and there's a practical protocol for both sides. Here's exactly what to do when a connection goes silent.
Ren Castillo·
Sibling bonds are the longest relationships most of us will ever have — yet adult drift is nearly universal. Here's the science behind why it happens, and a practical playbook for reinvesting before the distance becomes permanent.
Mika Torres·
Your earliest friendships were doing invisible developmental work — and the science says what they taught you still shapes every connection you'll ever make. Here's what childhood social bonds reveal about the hidden grammar of closeness.
Sage Lindgren·
Most people invest in friendships and family — and overlook the one developmental relationship research says shapes us most. Here's the science behind mentorship bonds, and five practical moves to build yours.
Jules Nakamura·
You don't need to be funnier. You need to laugh more — and with intention. Here's the evolutionary science behind laughter as a bonding mechanism, plus three practical levers to put it to work.
Ren Castillo·
The pressure to be socially abundant misses the point. Here's what neuroscience says about the power of a small, close circle — and why introverts' deepest instincts may be better calibrated than they've been told.
Sage Lindgren·
Your long-distance friends aren't lost — they're waiting. Here's a practical, science-backed framework for maintaining the friendships that matter most, no matter the miles.
Ren Castillo·
Everyone's obsessed with their attachment "type" — but the science says those styles are far more changeable than you think. Here's how adult security actually develops, and four evidence-backed pathways to get there.
Jules Nakamura·
You feel it. You just don't say it. Here's what research says about why the appreciation gap exists — and what actually happens to a relationship when you close it.
Sage Lindgren·