15 articles
Getting ghosted feels like a wound because it is one. Here's the 3-step recovery protocol backed by social psychology — for people who want to actually repair the damage instead of just white-knuckling through it.
Ren Castillo·
You think you're listening. The data disagrees. Here's what behavioral research on 17,120 real conversation moments reveals about what active listening actually does — and why the difference between faking it and doing it is a three-part chain reaction.
Jules Nakamura·
Empathy isn't something you're born with — it's a skill with documented training modalities that actually work. Here's the science-backed framework for getting better at the most important social skill nobody ever taught you.
Ren Castillo·
Men aren't losing friends because they're broken — they're losing them because nobody handed them a framework. Here's the four-part playbook for building real male friendship, backed by science and short on vague advice.
Ren Castillo·
Being ghosted stings. But the science says it's usually inertia, not cruelty — and there's a practical protocol for both sides. Here's exactly what to do when a connection goes silent.
Ren Castillo·
Most people invest in friendships and family — and overlook the one developmental relationship research says shapes us most. Here's the science behind mentorship bonds, and five practical moves to build yours.
Jules Nakamura·
You don't need to be funnier. You need to laugh more — and with intention. Here's the evolutionary science behind laughter as a bonding mechanism, plus three practical levers to put it to work.
Ren Castillo·
There's a quiet friendship recession among men — and it's well-documented by science. Here's what research reveals about why it happens, and four evidence-backed moves to fix it.
Jules Nakamura·
Your barista probably liked that conversation more than you think — and the science backs it up. Here's what research on weak ties and the "liking gap" means for your Tuesday morning routine.
Jules Nakamura·
You moved, retired, or started over — and your social calendar went blank. Here's a 5-step framework for rebuilding your social world from scratch, backed by science.
Ren Castillo·
The "social media ruins everything" panic isn't well-supported by the science. What matters isn't how much tech you use to connect — it's what kind. Here's the research, plus a 3-step audit to fix your digital social diet.
Ren Castillo·
Feeling disconnected? The most evidence-backed fix isn't another networking event — it's structured volunteering. Here's exactly how to use it as a connection strategy, with the science to back it up.
Ren Castillo·
Why empathy builds social bonds that actually last — and why the key to unlocking it is simpler than you'd expect. Here's the neuroscience, plus three moves you can try tonight.
Jules Nakamura·
Most apologies don't actually repair anything. Here's a 4-step framework rooted in Nonviolent Communication to turn conflict into genuine reconnection — in one conversation.
Ren Castillo·
Deep adult friendships don't happen by accident. Here's what the research says about why they're so hard to build — and the specific moves that actually make them real.
Dani Okafor·